Most women in the dating pool,my age, with, or without kids, have a good career, are educated, with at least one degree, and have their own home. All of these women want a man who is at least equal in these categories. So basically, if men fall short, they might as well forget about the prospect a relationship, so why bother trying? The older one gets, the more disheartening it becomes. This is just my personal take on the subject. I know that these men were not meant to be or it would have happened.
I’m not happy about it but it is what it is. Not fair to the woman of my age who says she “can’t keep her hands off me” when I feel more of a friend attraction. I’ll probably end up single and a bit lonely but so be it. I can’t force myself to be attracted to 50yr old woman if I’m not. It took about a year of emotional recovery from the divorce for me to venture into online dating. I quickly discovered that men my age don’t want women my age.
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I still listen to Led Zeppelin and Steely Dan. I am a loner because most of my friends are acting like Grandmas now and i dont have anything in common with them so i have fun traveling alone and meeting people. I go to Vegas alone 4 times a year and have a blast !! Someday i might hook up with a man who is like me and we can grow older together but i dont wish it or look for it life is too short wasting on the next man LOL LOL.
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If finding the right person was easy, you wouldn’t appreciate him as much when you find him. Remember how hard Tom Hanks’ character had to work to start a fire in the movie Castaway? He REALLY appreciated it once he got the fire going.
Nobody’s perfect, and the next guy they go for will come with his own issues. Good guys today are seemingly rare and precious. If a woman has a good guy she ought to keep him in her life and care for the relationship with maturity. The exciting “bad boy” out there won’t bring her a better quality relationship, just like it didn’t in high school.
Not sure how access will be increased as she is unwilling to do so as she wants to raise him in her religion which is different than mine. Anyway, I hope to be back enjoying my self with a woman in the not to distant future, we can talk on phone if you like or by email so we can exchange photos. The opposite, it’s super easy for women as long as they are at least moderately attractive she will have tons of men after her. A man, lets say 50 and up is no longer desired. Women with intentions of having children don’t want a man this old because he will be in his 60s when the child is a teenager.
I am not a shallow woman by any means. My problem is finding a man who wants a deep, meaningful connection without concerns for materialism and baggage from the past. I am an idealist, but times have changed.
#1. Be clear and honest
People are asking real questions here. Its a bit too far the gap.u might have some problems later. I struggle to see how much they could really have in common, but stranger things have happened. While there is nothing wrong with it, personally I don’t think I would ever date a 47 year old man who has or would seriously date a 22 year old girl. The natural world is a blood thirsty, savage, winner take all mentality where it’s the survival f the fittest. Only humans believe mother nature is a kind soul.
This rule states that by dividing your own age by two and then adding seven you can find the socially acceptable minimum age of anyone you want to date. That will be more important for understanding and respecting each other than having particular hobbies or interests in common, which are things you can work on. She’s very smart, thoughtful, and she’s incredibly sweet to me. She’s also a single mom, and I’m a single dad. But I also feel like it would be wrong to just end it because we have so much chemistry and we enjoy each other’s company so much. Don’t play hard to get because then he’s going to assume you’re uninterested.
The moment they see one, they’re done and walk away, while a 35 year old women tends to be a lot more flexible. 40’s and up have even more baggage than the 30-somethings and by the time they’re in their 40’s it has solidified into fixed structures, iron-clad expectations that have no exceptions. I’m single, 33, am in no rush for marriage and if I ever have kids it’ll probably be adoption when I’m older. My last boyfriend pressured me for marriage and kids very early on and it was one of the things that did us in.
